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Upcoming Events

Information about upcoming workshops, professional trainings and public lectures by the staff of The Next Step will be posted here and updated as they develop.

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NOW AVAILABLE!!

Victims No Longer - Second Edition
The revised, updated, and expanded second edition of Victims No Longer includes updated information, a new chapter on Clergy Abuse, new sections on isolation, workshops, and other topics, additional survivor statements and focuses, and a completely revised resource section. Click on the Books button to the left for more information.

Victims No Longer is now available in an electronic (e-book) format, through Amazon Kindle, Apple e-books, B&N Nook, and KoBo.

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Victims No Longer - Chinese Language Edition has been released by PsyGarden Publishing Company in Taiwan.

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A brief section of an interview with Mike on YouTube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bUuVKLZb1IQ

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February 3, 2012

Mike was the guest on the Friday, February 3rd edition of "Stop Child Abuse Now" (SCAN) Blog Talk Radio Show. The show will start at 8:00 pm Eastern Time, and end at 9:30 pm.You can find the show at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/bill-murray

The program is sponsored by the National Association of Adult Survivors of Child Abuse:http://naasca.org/index.html 

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May 15, 2014

Topsham, Exeter, Devon, United Kingdom

"Working with Male Survivors"

This 1 day training facilitated by Mike Lew is for professionals and people who work with and support male survivors of boyhood sexual abuse and other traumas. Male and female delegates are welcome.

This training day will:
Outline the challenges faced by male survivors, particularly areas of recovery around trust, intimacy, sexuality, and relationships,
Explore ways of working with Male Survivors, and how to actively support recovery,
Address the questions "How do I respond constructively?" "How do I take care of myself while supporting others in their exploration & recovery from underlying childhood traumas?"

Venue: Court Barn, Highfield Farm, Topsham, Exeter. Devon EX3 OBY Highfield Farm

Court Barn is a new Green Oak-framed conference suite, offering a comfortable environment with ample on site free parking and extensive views across open farmland.
Highfield Farm is readily accessible and only a 5 min drive from the M5 motorway J30.
Highfield farm is situated on the edge of Topsham and is an easy 10 minute walk from the Topsham Railway Station.
Accommodation: Exeter and the surrounding area offer many opportunities for overnight accomodation. Exeter, Topsham, Lympstone and Exmouth are all close by and within easy reach for those who may be using public transport and the trains. Hardy souls can arrange to camp on the property.

'Working with Male Survivors'
Thur 15th May 9.30am – 5pm, Cost £90.
Buffet lunches, tea, coffee, biscuits etc are all included.
For further information & enquiries please email: Graham Edwards or tel: mob 07762 425618

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May 17 & 18, 2014

Topsham, Exeter, Devon, United Kingdom

Victims No Longer #2

Our second Devon non-residential weekend workshop for male survivors.

This 2 day non-residential recovery workshop facilitated by Mike Lew is for male survivors of boyhood sexual abuse and other trauma.

The sessions offer a recovery experience in a safe powerful environment for shared healing which address the specific needs of male survivors. This workshop is open to non-offending male survivors only.

This 'Victims No Longer workshop' will focus on the reality of recovery and offers the opportunity for expressing feelings in a supportive and non-abusive environment. Discussing how childhood abuse effects adult life. Sharing personal histories. Talking about trust, intimacy, sexuality, and relationships. Exploring and developing strategies for survival and healing.

This weekend's focus is for men actively engaged in their recovery work and is not a substitute for therapy.

Venue: Court Barn, Highfield Farm, Topsham, Exeter. Devon EX3 OBY Highfield Farm

Court Barn is a new Green Oak-framed conference suite with extensive views across open farmland. Offering a comfortable environment with ample on site free parking, Highfield Farm is readily accessible and only a 5 min drive from the M5 motorway J30. Highfield Farm is situated on the edge of Topsham and is an easy 10 minute walk from the Topsham Railway Station.
Accommodation : the workshop is non-residential and Exeter and the surrounding area offer many opportunities for overnight accomodation. Exeter, Topsham, Lympstone and Exmouth are
all close by and within easy reach for those who may be using public transport and the trains. Hardy souls can arrange to camp on the property.

'Victims No Longer' Cost £180.
Sat 17th May 9.30am – 7pm, Sun 18th May 9.30am – 4.30pm.
Buffet lunches, tea, coffee, biscuits etc are all included ( + afternoon tea on Saturday)
A limited number of subsidised places may possibly be available, subject to funding.
For further infomation & enquiries please email: Graham Edwards or tel: mob 07762 425618

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May 23-25, 2014

Norway (Details will be posted as they become available.)

Victims No Longer #4 - A Men's Recovery Weekend

We have reserved the dates for our 4th annual Norwegian weekend workshop for male survivors. It will be held at the same venue as last year, a lovely hotel on a fjord about a 1 1/2 hour drive from Oslo. Details are still being worked out. For further information and registration watch this page or contact Lennart Persson or Endre Førland

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June 6-8, 2014

Bangor, Pennsylvania, USA

Allies in Recovery #4
A Weekend Workshop for Sexual Abuse Survivors and their Partners

7:00 PM Friday dinner through Sunday lunch 
Cost $650 per couple includes room, all meals, and the workshop.
Led by Mike Lew and Thom Harrigan

The long-term and often painful process of recovery from sexual abuse has profound effects on relationships. Partners and survivors experience a parallel process of understanding the nature of abuse, its effects on the survivor and the couple, and the requirements of healing. Lack of information and understanding on both sides cause great strain on the couple.

This weekend workshop is designed for couples where one or both of the partners is a non-offending survivor of sexual child abuse, rape, physical violence, emotional abuse and/or neglect. It is open to heterosexual, gay, and lesbian couples in committed relationships. Our goal is to offer a safe, encouraging environment of healing for each partner and the couple.

The weekend will provide a variety of healing activities, including the sharing of stories, writing exercises, anger work and other emotional expression, small group discussion, relaxation, creativity, and yes, even fun.

There will be time for work within the couple as well as individual and small group gatherings just for survivors or just for partners.

Survivors will be able to do their own healing work while learning ways of improving communication with people who care about them. They will come to understand stressors experienced by their partners, and how stepping out of isolation will improve their recovery and their relationship.

Partners will be encouraged to explore and express the challenges they face being in a loving relationship with a survivor and how to practice self care while more effectively supporting and getting support from their partner. Like the survivor, they will begin to move beyond their own isolation toward more effective communication and a healthier, more satisfying relationship.

Led by Mike Lew, and Thom Harrigan of the Next Step Counseling in Brookline MA. 
Mike is the author of Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse. Thom leads groups for male survivors and has worked extensively in this field. For more information see: www.nextstepcounseling.org 
  
For registration forms, contact  KIRKRIDGE RETREAT AND STUDY CENTER 
2495 Fox Gap Road, Bangor, PA 18013-6028, 610-588-1793 . Fax: 610-588-8510 
or register online at Kirkridge

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August 1-3, 2014

Bangor, Pennsylvania, USA

LEAPING UPON THE MOUNTAINS: A MEN'S RECOVERY WEEKEND

Led by Mike Lew & Thom Harrigan

The past years have seen great positive change for people in recovery from childhood trauma, and for males in particular. No longer forced to suffer alone, survivors and professionals continue to develop resources and support systems that move the recovery process forward.

This, our 24th annual weekend workshop is for non-offending adult male survivors of sexual child abuse and other sexual trauma. Our goal is to offer a recovery experience in a safe, powerful environment of shared healing. The Kirkridge Retreat and Study Center is on a beautiful, wooded ridge top in the Pocono Mountains of Eastern Pennsylvania.

The weekend will provide a variety of healing activities: sharing of stories, writing exercises, anger work, other emotional expression, group discussion, shared creativity, relaxation and even fun in a safe, nurturing environment.

As in previous years, if there are sufficient numbers and interest, the workshop will include a special track for survivors of abuse by clergy.

This event for men actively engaged in recovery work is not a substitute for therapy. A letter of recommendation from a therapist/counselor must accompany one's registration. The registration deadline is July 18th. Space is limited, so please try to register early to secure your place. (Previous weekends have had full registration and a waiting list.)

Considerable attention has been paid to creating a safe, nurturing environment respectful of participants' needs.The weekend focuses on the reality of recovery as revealed by male survivors.

Led by Mike Lew, M.Ed. and Thom Harrigan, L.I.C.S.W., of The Next Step Counseling in Brookline, MA. Mike is the author of Victims No Longer:The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse, and Leaping Upon the Mountains: Men Proclaiming Victory Over Sexual Child Abuse. Thom leads groups for male survivors and works extensively with survivors of clergy abuse.

7 PM Friday dinner through Sunday lunch $380.00 includes room, meals, and workshop.

Copy the form section below, paste into a new document, print and mail it to:
Kirkridge Conference and Retreat Center
2495 Fox Gap Road, Bangor, PA 18013
Tel. (610) 588-1793

Registration deposits ($190.00) are non-refundable for cancellations within 14 days of the event. Prior to 14 days before the event deposits are refundable except for a $50 administrative fee. If possible, please register at least one month prior and use one form per person/event. Or you can register online at Kirkridge .

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"LEAPING UPON THE MOUNTAINS"
August 1- 3, 2014

Please Print:

Name:_____________________________

Telephone:__________________(H)____________________(W)

Address:_____________________________City:__________________________

State__________________ Zip_________________

E-Mail address:_______________________________________

Roommate request (all rooms double occupancy):____________________________

Amt. of Deposit Enclosed: $_____________(Balance Due on Arrival)

For Canadian Checks indicate "U.S. Funds" next to the dollar and word amounts.

You may pay by credit card (full amount must be paid when registering by credit card)

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Expiration Date:________ Signature:____________________________________

For Scholarship Fund:____________________(All gifts are tax deductible)

Please note if you have a disability for use in making room assignments

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August 22-24, 2014

Maldon, Victoria, Australia

"Victims No Longer" - Victoria's 8th annual weekend recovery workshop for male survivors sponsored by SouthEastern Centre Against Sexual Assault (SECASA) For information and registration contact Donovan Pill

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October 8-9, 2014

Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada

2-day professional training sponsored by Bridges Institute and New Start Counselling. Details and location to be determined. For further information and registration, contact Tod or Brenda

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October 10, 2014

Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada

Day-long recovery workshop for male survivors sponsored by Bridges Institute and New Start Counselling. Details and location to be determined. For further information and registration, contact Tod or Brenda

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Other events in planning stages: Discussions are underway for other 2014 events in Australia, United Kingdom, Ireland, and Cambodia. Information will be posted as it becomes available.

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